Create an invitation
Have a great idea? Post a date you'd actually want to go on: a restaurant reservation, concert, pottery class, live game or anything worth sharing.
THE BAMBI IDEA
Not just a match. A plan.
Create a date you'd love, or discover one you want to join. Bambi makes the experience part of the introduction.
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The date comes before the match.
Discover a date
Rather join an experience? Browse date ideas and express interest in one that sounds fun. Start with something you genuinely have in common.
Connect and make it happen
When there's mutual interest, connect around the invitation. You already have a potential plan instead of starting from an empty chat.
BE THE PLANNER
Make the first move with a plan.
You don't need an extravagant budget. Your taste, thoughtfulness and creativity count. A scenic coffee walk or an independent movie can say much more than a copy-paste opener.
BE THE PLUS-ONE
Choose the dates you'd enjoy.
Find people through the things they want to do. Instead of spending weeks wondering if someone will ask you out, you can discover invitations that start with an actual experience.
Less “what are you up to?”
More “let's do this.”
More “let's do this.”
The details matter.
Not every date requires a fancy reservation, and no invitation guarantees chemistry. Make clear plans, communicate expectations—including who is paying—and treat every invitation as a chance to meet someone respectfully.
For first meetings, choose a public place, make your own transportation arrangements and read our dating-safety guide.
COMING SOON TO IOSLess endless texting.
Less endless texting.
More real dates.
There's a better way to make the first move. Discover the idea behind Bambi and get ready for something different.
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